Honoring the Memory
of Those
We Love

Condolences

• August 14, 2025

  Eddie Bartek

  I miss you buddy. We. Should be going fishing , watching games and everything else we enjoyed. You are special and I think of you daily. A random guy at work asked me about you a few weeks ago , and a kid that does work for us looks exactly like you , only taller , lol . I view these as signs - you're letting me know you're ok and at peace . I don't ever forget you and I never will . Until we meet again, and I believe we will . I love you Aid .

• September 06, 2022

  Sam

  I knew Aidan only a short time but he brought so much joy into a mainly miserable part of my life. I met Aidan in rehab, and he was a friend to me when i had very few. I remember Aidan as someone who was always smiling and who always set out to make others smile. I will never forget New Years Eve 2022, sitting out on the porch sharing funny memories. Aidan had a sweet soul, and his light will be missed dearly.

• August 31, 2022

  Melissa Pokorny

  Eileen, I'm so very sorry to hear of the passing of your son. Take comfort in the fact that he is safe now and his demons are no longer near. Hold onto each other tightly and know that you've done all that you could have done with much love and support. Our sincere condolences. The Pokorny family

• August 30, 2022

  Judy Dominici

  Matt, I heard from one of the UPS drivers about the passing of your beloved son Aidan. Please know that you and your wife Eileen and your daughters are in my thoughts and prayers. Aidan is at rest now and at peace in our Lord's protection. God Bless you and your family.

• August 23, 2022

  Jasmine

  May God rest his soul... praying for strength & light in this hard time. We went to St. Joe's together, in the same group... His pain was felt ... so was his fight for life. I'm completely lost for words. My heart felt condolences to his family. ❤️

• August 23, 2022

  Corey beeles

  I very sorry to hear the passing of Aidan!he was a wonderful and caring young man.he will be very missed fly high my young friend!

• August 23, 2022

  Tom and Sandy Patrus

  Dear Sue, Ed and family, There is no greater loss than a loss of a son, or in your case a grandson. Please know that so many people are sharing your sorrow and praying that Aiden is at peace now. The memories of the times you had with him will live on in your hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy. Love, Sandy and Tom Patrus

• August 22, 2022

  Ken Levin

  May you be comforted by our thoughts and prayers at this time. Please don't hesitate to contact us if we can help in anyway. CCP South Hills Pediatrics

• August 21, 2022

  Peggy outly

  Sue and Ed I was so sorry to hear about your grandson. There are no words but to hope he is now at peace and your family will cherish the special moments of his life. Much love Peggy outly

• August 20, 2022

  Mary McClure

  Dear Barker and Bartek Families, Your Families get it- total acceptance of individual trials and tribulations,, You all are the true example of compassion, support and Love! Aidan Until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of his hand! Hugs all around! Mary McClure

• August 20, 2022

  cheyenne

  aidan i am so blessed to have crossed paths with you. i will never forget your energy. thank you for always making feel welcomed. love you and miss you dearly ❤️☀️

• August 20, 2022

  Harry G Hanna

  Deepest sympathies to Barker family. Our years of watching our sons playing hockey were fun. Please stay strong for each other. May Aidan's memory be forever eternal. Harry, Maria and Alexander Hanna

• August 20, 2022

  Kristen Hall

  Aidan was always polite and kind to me during the hours of phone calls talking about recovery. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I work with families on a daily basis and was always impressed with your perspective, Eileen. Aidan knows how much he was left. I pray he is resting peacefully now.

• August 20, 2022

  Mary Landers

  Matt, Eileen and family, Sarah, Patrick and I want you all to know that you are in are thoughts and hearts during this very difficult time. Love, Aunt Cass

• August 20, 2022

  Colleen Arendash

  We are so sorry to hear of your loss and will keep Aidan in your family in our thoughts and prayers. Colleen and Mike Arendash

• August 20, 2022

  Lucas Ivers

  Im really sorry for your loss Barker family. I knew Aiden since middle school and I ran track with him it was an honor to be apart of his middle school and high school memories. I knew he struggled a lot and I'm sorry for your loss. I will always remember him being a goofy, super athletic and talented person. I also know I wasn't one of his closest friends but I'm glad I got to meet him. I hope you rest easy Aiden! The class of 2019 will love and miss you solemnly!❤️ -Lucas Ivers

• August 19, 2022

  Santina and Logan Rodgers

  To the entire Barker family, I extend my deepest condolences and prayers to you all. Aidan will always be remembered by Logan and I for the love and fun they had through Purple Power. With much ❤️ love

• August 19, 2022

  Colleen Cuba

  My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family this whole week. I just can't even imagine the pain of losing a child. Even more, to feel so helpless as you watch them battle an addiction that is stronger than anything we can give. I can't even imagine how difficult this must be for everyone. I believe all we can do is trust in the Lord during the most challenging times like this and believe that there is something greater at work. Aiden's life had a different path and purpose that only the Lord knows. I am hopeful that all of you will get through this from the strength and support of having your family near. Give yourselves the patience and time to heal and hang onto each other for comfort. Thinking of you and sending love ❤️

• August 19, 2022

  The Sakulsky’s

  I am so sorry to hear this and of Aidan's struggles. Thinking of you and your family. The Sakulsky Family

• August 19, 2022

  Kathy Moeslein

  Dear Barker & Bartek Families: God be with you and may the Blessed Mother hold your hands !!💙💙 Rich, Kathy, Rich, Matt & Janae Moeslein "Your wings were ready but our hearts were not ! "

• August 19, 2022

  Colleen Benton

  My deepest sympathy to Eileen, Matt, Stella, Ava, Maura, Sara, and the Bartek and Barker families. You are surrounded by so many people that love you during this most difficult time. May Aidan rest easy with the angels. His Pap is with him. May you find comfort in Aidan's love. Much love to you all.

• August 18, 2022

  Brian P

  I'm sorry for your lost. I only knew Aidan for a short period, however he had a beautiful soul. Internally he was struggling but a great person. R.I.P Aidan you will be missing and never forgotten.

• August 18, 2022

  Patty Hill

  Matt and Eileen, I am so sorry to hear about Aidan. My deepest sympathy goes out to Both of you, your children and the entire Barker/Bartek Family.

• August 18, 2022

  Robert Hines

  To the entire Barker family, I can't imagine your loss!! Thoughts and prayers from the Hines family!!!

• August 17, 2022

  Therese (Graf) Shearer

  So sorry for your loss!

• August 17, 2022

  Uncle Eddie

  You were my first nephew, you had the roundest head , like Charlie Brown. I coached you in t ball and we went to all the Pitt hoop games with pap. Going fishing with you and your dad. We laughed the whole time . I fell off the map for a decade with my own battles with drugs & alcohol. I feel guilty I wasn't really there for you during this time. You were 12 and came in my room alone ,I was shivering, sick, distraught and wanted to die. You told me " please go to rehab Uncle Eddie - I don't want you to die. You gave me hope . As you got older , we went to the gym with Danny and I wanted to instill in you that addiction is insidious and will rip your soul from your body and take everything away you love . I told you everything about the pain, guilt, suffering and despair. You had to fight your own battle , I take solace in that you fought. We never gave up HOPE , HOPE is the most wonderful thing in the world . Out last conversation was optimistic , my last words to you were that I'll never give up on you and that I love you. Call or text me anytime . It angers me that I couldn't do more, I feel that God made me go through what I did , granted I made my own self destructive choices. It was and is to help save the people I love from the pain I went through . It doesn't work like that, which is hard to swallow . Your family loved you more than you will ever know. I wish I could taken some of your pain away . You'll never be forgotten Aid . Rest easy and tell Pap hello .

• August 17, 2022

  Eileen Pakula

  Aiden was the first grandchild for Mary and Ed Bartek. He was lovingly called "sir" and brought our whole family so much joy! Aidan was a sweet, sensitive and quiet child with a troubled spirit. This world is too much for the gentlest souls among us. He was fortunate to have the best parents In the world. He was blessed with four beautiful and loving sisters whom he loved dearly. Aidan's extended family is close knit and offered him constant love and support. I am in awe of the Barker/ Bartek family's devotion You all have truly defined the beauty of family. We pray you find peace and strength. With our love, Uncle Bill and Aunt Eileen