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Darlene Joyce (Smith) Stocker

April 25, 1947 - January 24, 2021

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Obituary For Darlene Joyce (Smith) Stocker

Age 73, passed peacefully on Sunday, January 24, 2021, of McDonald, formerly of South Park.

Beloved wife of James Stocker; loving mother of Nicole Stocker; proud grandmother of Makenna and Ella Aldrich; daughter of the late Sara and George Smith; sister of Linda Smith (Brian) MacNairn and Terry Smith (Wayne Ellis); sister-in-law of Janet and Robert Fitzpatrick; aunt of Tim (Erin) Fitzpatrick, Ian MacNairn, Colin (Ellen) MacNairn, Cody Ellis and Tina (Dave) Banach. Darlene was a lifelong learner as her career progressed from LPN to RN to social worker and finally as a school counselor. She found joy in helping others and spending time with children. She loved creating detailed embroidered items for others. Darlene loved her husband, family and animals. Friends will be received at the John F. Slater Funeral Home, Inc., 412-881-4100, 4201 Brownsville Road, Brentwood 15227 on Wednesday, January 27, 2021 from 3-5 and 6-8 p.m. Funeral services will be held privately. Due to the current public health crisis, masks and social distancing guidelines must be adhered to. In lieu of flowers, family suggests contributions to Animal Friends, 562 Camp Horne Road, Pittsburgh, PA 15237 (thinkingoutsidethecage.org) or City Mission, 84 W. Wheeling Street, Washington, PA 15301.

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  • January 28, 2021

    Wynne Fedele

    Dear Jim, Nicole, Terry & Linda, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I have a lot of fun memories of Darlene and all of those Fourth of July celebrations at Aunt Sal & Uncle George's house and New Year's Day at your house. I think of those times often. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. It's very hard to lose someone who has meant so much to you. -Wynne (Rooney) Fedele

  • January 28, 2021

    Karem Meley

    I am so very sorry to hear of Darlene's passing. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Jim and the family. I worked with Darlene at NAMS. Darlene our counselor, and I as school nurse worked together to help our students manage and thrive during their middle school years. Darlene was my go to referral person, my lunch partner, my colleague and most of all, my friend. Having her to consult with made my work easier and more effective. She was a delight to work with and I will miss her. God bless you all. Karen Meley

  • January 27, 2021

    Cheri Densmore

    To the Stocker family: I'm so sorry for the loss of your wife, mom and grandmother. I knew Darlene through the Bethel Park school district first as a mother of one of her NAMS students. My daughter was having difficulties with another student on the bus and Darlene handled the situation beautifully and helped to resolve the situation. I later knew her as the NAMS counselor when I became a full time school nurse in Bethel Park. She was always so kind and intuitive. Finally when she retired I was lucky enough to have her sub for me. She was especially kind when my mom passed away and she subbed for me during that difficult time. Darlene will truly be missed .... not only by me but by a whole community in Bethel Park. I am so sorry for the loss of this kind, caring and compassionate woman. Blessings to all, Cheri Densmore

  • January 27, 2021

    Howard McKown

    Jim, Deepest sympathy to you & your family.

  • January 27, 2021

    Jean Lane

    Jim, we were so sorry to hear about Darlene. We will keep you in our prayers at this time of your loss.

  • January 27, 2021

    Jean Lane

    Jim, we were so sorry to hear about Darlene. We'll keep you in our prayers at this sad time.. Jean and Bob Lane

  • January 27, 2021

    Susan Reich

    I remember when Dar came to your new house out east-I found her on her hands and knees outside in the yard(on a very hot day) digging in that rock hard dirt! She was having fun! She had the biggest smile on her face! She was so excited to get your garden going!

  • January 27, 2021

    Ron Wengryn

    Jim, Linda and I were so saddened to read about Dar. She was always a favorite of mine and we are very sorry we didn't stay in touch when you moved. We are in Florida for two months or we would have visited for sure. I'd like to visit with you in the spring when we return. Our thoughts are with you in this very sad time. Ron & Linda Wengryn

  • January 26, 2021

    Karen Cover

    So very sorry for your loss Nicole and family. Prayers for your family.

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