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Ethel M. (Schmale) Pacey

February 19, 1928 - September 12, 2023


Obituary For Ethel M. (Schmale) Pacey

Age 95, peacefully on Tuesday, September 12, 2023, of Baldwin, formerly of North Side.

Beloved wife of the late Edward C. Pacey; loving mother of Timothy C. (Mary) Pacey and Donna M. Graf (the late Roger; whose funeral arrangements will be posted by next week); proud grandmother of Joshua E. (Jessica) Graf; sister of Dorothy M. Nystrom of CA and the late Dr. Raymond M. Schmale and Alice M. (the late William) Frey. Will be missed by nieces, nephews, cousins, neighbors and friends. Friends will be received at the John F. Slater Funeral Home, Inc., 412-881-4100, 4201 Brownsville Road, Brentwood 15227 on Friday, September 15, 2023 from 3-8 p.m. Funeral service will be held in the funeral home Chapel on Saturday morning at 10:30 a.m. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made to St. John Specialty Care Center, Lutheran Senior Life Foundation,500 Wittenberg Way, Mars, PA 16046.

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  • 09/18/2023

    Ethel now has her perfect eternity suit. Waiting for those of us who will see her later with our Heavenly Father. ❤️

  • 09/16/2023

    Tim and Mary...and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest, Sweet Ethel. Tom & Robin Warfield

  • 09/16/2023

    Dear Tim, Mary, Donna, and family, Know that friends are praying for you all and sending God's peace to help you through this difficult time. With much sympathy, Peggy, Reed and all of your friends from St. Anne's Church, Damascus, MD

  • 09/15/2023

    Donna and I graduated Baldwin High School together and were in the marching band. Your mother was so kind to all of us and I was very sad to hear of her passing. I will be thinking of you and Tim. Prayers to you both. Carmella Paiani

  • 09/14/2023

    We all tourists in this world and will all have to go home to our Father in Heaven one day, where we all will live happily together forever. God bless and comfort the family. Condolences and prayers from the Nanas Family.

  • 09/14/2023

    Ethel was a daughter to my grandma, a sister n friend to my mother, an aunt and godmother to me, a devoted wife to my uncle, a good mom to my cousins and a good supportive person to those in need. You will never know all the lives you have touched by just being you Aunt Ethel. I will miss you. And I love you. Please say hi to my mom n dad n Gram n Uncle Eddie. I will see you on the other side.