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Joseph Thomas O'Toole

January 20, 1940 - August 23, 2024

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Obituary For Joseph Thomas O'Toole

Of Pittsburgh, passed away peacefully at home on August 23, 2024, at the age of 84.

Beloved husband of 65 years to Diane (Napieracz); loving father of Karen (Martin) Holmes, Joseph, Jr. (Michele), Janet (Ron) Hollingsworth and Lynn (Chuck) Rose; proud Pap Pap of Tim (Vania), Chris (Leighla) and Jacob (Epiphany) Holmes, Maul, Joseph, III, Kevin (Samantha), Maggie and Aiden (Rachel) O'Toole, Connor and Ian Danielson and Emily, Sarah and Cayden Rose; great Pap Pap of Martin, Ollie, Eamon and Evelyn; son of the late James and Rita O'Toole; brother of Patrick (Amy) O'Toole and the late James (survived by Janice) O'Toole, Martin O'Toole, Eileen (Thomas) Carey and Terry (survived by Kitty) O'Toole. Also survived by his "adopted" kids Hung Dang and Fr. Charles Niwagaba and many loving nieces, nephews and their families. Joe was the backbone of the family and was considered a solid sounding board for friends, neighbors, and colleagues alike. Joe was also the unofficial ambassador for the city of Pittsburgh, happily taxiing visiting family members and friends all around his favorite sites. He worked for the Pennsylvania Department of Revenue, managing the Pittsburgh Inheritance Tax Division. He also spent many years as a proud union member and served as treasurer and union president, successfully negotiating the move from 3 Rivers Stadium for all union employees to the new PNC Park and Heinz Field. His career with the Pirates started at the tender age of 14, working as a bat boy for the visiting team. His love of the game continued throughout his life. He was a true fan of all Pittsburgh sports teams, and was thrilled to attend the 2009 Super Bowl in Tampa, FL. Joe loved his family, especially Diane, his “bride” of 65 years. Devoted and beloved Dad, Joe coached, cheered on, and taxied his children, and their friends all over town. In later years, he enjoyed attending events for his grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Any and all music, scouting, theater, dance, and sporting events were attended by Pap Pap. He will be deeply missed by many. Friends will be received at the John F. Slater Funeral Home, Inc., 412-881-4100, 4201 Brownsville Road, Brentwood 15227, Tuesday, August 27, 2024, from 3 - 8 p.m. A Blessing Service will be held Wednesday morning at 10:00 in the funeral home's chapel. In lieu of flowers, donations are encouraged to: Saint Thomas Secondary School, c/0 Theresa St. Ledger, 901 40th Avenue, East Moline, IL 61244 or The Little Sisters of the Poor, 1028 Benton Ave., Pittsburgh, PA 15212.

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  • September 10, 2024

    Lynn Rose

    I miss you every day, Papi!🙏🏻🩵Sending love always and forever.

  • August 29, 2024

    John Lukus

    Our deepest condolences to Diane and the entire family. During the St Casimir's reunions in past years, we talked often. His sense of humor and intelligence and kind words was overwhelming. Joe will be sadly missed . With heartfelt sympathy, John and Therese Lukus

  • August 28, 2024

    Jim Ellenbogen

    Unfortunately I just found out tonight. Rest in peace, my old friend Jim Ellenbogen

  • August 28, 2024

    John Bogosto

    My condolences to the O'Toole family on your loss. John Bogosto

  • August 26, 2024

    Jim Burns

    Joe was a mentor and friend. I worked with him during his beverage years. He was a proud husband, father, grandfather, son, brother and uncle. He always shared the successes of his family with me. I met Joe 50 years ago and I'll never forget him. We shared the same birthday, January 20th. I'm glad I had an opportunity to talk and laugh with him one more time last month. My sincere condolences to Joe's family. RIP Joe. Jim Burns

  • August 26, 2024

    John p. Foley

    Diane, My deepest sympathy to you and your fine family with the sudden passing of Joe. He was a life time friend a valued member of the ST Casimirs Alumni board and an unofficial ambassador of the city of Pittsburgh! May your fine family continue to prosper the way Joe would have wanted in the future. Your friend, John P.Foley.. ....

  • August 26, 2024

    Theresa Telfer

    My heartfelt condolences go out to Aunt Diane, cousins Karen, Joe, Janet, and Lynn, and their families, as well as to all who loved and cherished my Uncle Joe. Although I moved from Pittsburgh at the age of 13 and didn't see him often, all my memories of Uncle Joe are warm and cherished. He had a unique ability to make me, and surely everyone around him, feel special and loved. I am sad that I will not be able to attend the services in person. Rest in peace, Uncle Joe.

  • August 26, 2024

    Niwagaba Rodgers

    May his soul rest in peace

  • August 26, 2024

    Niwagaba Rodgers

    May his soul rest in eternal peace.we shall always pray his soul.may God comfort his family.from Rodgers niwagaba

  • August 26, 2024

    Bernie Komoroski

    Dear Dianne and family, I am so saddened to hear of the passing of my dear friend and neighbor. I am aware of your feelings at this time and offer my and my family's deepest sympathies and prayers. I am grateful to have known Joe and I know that he will be sorely missed by many. My personal thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. R.I.P., Joe, my friend and neighbor.

  • August 26, 2024

    Murungi Geraldine

    We are with you in spirit. May the good Lord comfort you in this trying time. May his soul rest in power.. From Father Charles' friend. Kampala, Uganda

  • August 26, 2024

    Fr Charles Niwagaba

    When I arrived in Pittsburgh from Uganda to do my studies at Duquesne university in 2005 I didn't know a single person or family in the whole City of Pittsburgh. I was so lonely and also dealing with cultural shock during the first few months. One morning I received a call from Joseph O'Toole requesting me to go out for dinner with him and also visit his family. After several subsequent visit to his family I became a member of his family and he treated me as his ' Ugandan son'. As a father he really ancouraged me and built confidence in me to face life challenges. I will miss attending his funeral because I am very far in Uganda but very many Masses are already being said here in Uganda for the repose of his soul. I offer everyone in the family my deepest condolences. Please be very strong during this time of great loss. May his soul rest in eternal peace. Fr Charles Niwagaba

  • August 26, 2024

    Marita Kelley

    Joe O'Toole was one of the kindest and most caring man I have had the pleasure of knowing. Prayers and Blessings to his family, Marita Kelley

  • August 26, 2024

    Sanyu Evelyne

    I wish to extend my sympathy to u and entire family upon loosing your dear one. May the Almighty comfort you during this hardest moment. We all know that it's God who gives and take at any time he feels like. May the Angels recieve the Soul of the deceased. Rest in peace forever. Sanyu Evelyne Niece to Fr. Charles

  • August 26, 2024

    Keith Davis

    My deepest condolences on your loss. I know it's difficult right now, but try not frown because he is gone, smile for the time you had together. I believe that is what he would have wanted.

  • August 26, 2024

    Xavier

    My sincerest condolences to the family. Indeed it's such a great loss not only to the family but also to the church, friends, and the world at large. Your dedicated service to the Lord here on earth, as evidenced by your sacrificial support and mentorship to many lives like Fr. Charles, will be greatly missed. Yet we are consoled by the fact that you ran your race well and deserve your reward. Enjoy your rest with the Lord. Fr. Charles' friend.

  • August 26, 2024

    Atesa Abigail

    my sincere condolence to Thomas O'Toole's family. May Thomas's soul rest in peace (Father Charles' friend)

  • August 26, 2024

    Ayebazibwe Cynthia

    It's so sad to hear about the loss of such a good man.May the Almighty God forgive Him for what he didn't do right while on earth and grant him eternal rest. May His Soul Rest In Peace. From Ayebazibwe Cynthia Fr.Charles Nuwagaba's niece

  • August 26, 2024

    EDYANGU JUDE

    My Deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss. Words cannot express how saddened we are to learn of your loss. We are all here for you. Father Charles' Friend

  • August 26, 2024

    EDYANGU JUDE

    My Deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss. Words cannot express how saddened we are to learn of your loss. We are all here for you. Father Charles' Friend

  • August 26, 2024

    Apilli Barbra

    My deepest condolences to the family of Joseph Thomas O'Toole. May his soul rest in peace Father Charles' friend

  • August 26, 2024

    ATUHAIRE LINUS

    Dear Family of Joseph Thomas O'Toole, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Joseph's love and dedication as a foster father to my uncle has made a lasting impact on our family. Please know that you are all in our thoughts during this difficult time. With heartfelt sympathy, Lin, Fr. Charles' niece

  • August 26, 2024

    Koburamuzi Brenda

    My deepest condolences to the Family of Joseph Thomas O'Toole. May the Lord reward Thomas for all the good deeds he did while still on earth and where he ran short of the Lord's glory, may he forgive him and welcome him into his heavenly kingdom. May his soul rest in peace Brenda (Fr. Charles' niece)

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