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Lois Ann Ruffing

June 29, 1933 - October 13, 2023

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Obituary For Lois Ann Ruffing

Lois Ann Jozwiak Ruffing passed away on Friday, October 13, 2023 at Inspira Hospital of Mullica Hill, New Jersey at the age of 90. She was born and raised in the South Side of Pittsburgh, moving to Arlington and the South Hills before moving to Oviedo Florida and Rincon, Georgia. She spent the last ten years living with her daughter Deborah and her son-in-law Raymond in Mullica Hill, NJ.

Wife of the late Carl Robert Ruffing, Mother of Carol Ann Ruffing-Sedlock-Sommers-Schulman, Linda Ann Ruffing Rozinak, Deborah Ann Ruffing Lorson (Raymond), and Pamela Ann Ruffing Zuberi, Grandmother to David Schimborski (Jessica), Bethany Schimborski, Austin Williams, Aleah Zuberi, Jessica Rozinak Klug (Raymond) and Justin Rozinak. Daughter of the late William and Laura Kszeneski Jozwiak. Sister to the late Irene Kocinski (Joseph), Leonard Jozwiak (Noela), and Bernard Jozwiak (Evelyn). Aunt to Janet Kocinski-Smarsh-Bruce (David), Kenneth Kocinski, Leonard Jozwiak, Jr., (Pamela), Julie Jozwiak Murphy (David), Michelle Jozwiak, Kristy Jozwiak-Janes (Philip), Carmen Jozwiak-Oppenheimer-Lachapelle, Mark Jozwiak and Michael Jozwiak. Great and Great-Great Aunt to many.

Lois was an Operating Room Nurse in her early years and worked at both South Side Hospital and St. Joseph’s Hospital. She also worked at Nabisco Cracker Factory in her teens, as well as a Tray-Girl at South Side Hospital and she did odd jobs in a beauty shop. She was a Girl Scout and Brownie Leader when her children were young. She raised 4 daughters and was an outstanding and dearly Loved wife and Mother.

Lois will be remembered for her infectious laughter, a wicked sense of humor and she loves jokes. Her kind heart and generosity were exceptional. She gave away more than she ever had. Lois was a faithful daughter to God. She Prayed religiously, and always said a Blessing before her meals. She watched the Services on TV, and enjoyed the Sermons. She slept with her Jesus blanket every night, and filled her room with the Holy Mother statues and pictures.

Always a mentor and second Mother to all of her Children’s friends. She was unbelievably talented at decorating, cooking, sewing and crocheting. She loved to do needle work of all kinds. She taught herself how to knit, and she was a good teacher of her crafts. She made clothes for her children and Halloween costumes. She made quilts, pillows, toys, and embroidered blankets for her grandchildren. She made all kinds of things with her hands and gave them to her family and friends. She loved playing card games, especially with her sister Irene, brother-in law Joe, niece Janet, and Janet’s husband Dave. They also traveled together on mini trips and excursions. An avid reader, she read thousands of books, and she loved listening to a variety of music. She was a self taught piano, organ and accordion player. She really loved her Polkas and sing-alongs.

While living with her daughter Deborah and son-in-law Raymond, Lois’s favorite activity was visiting different Diners and Restaurants in New Jersey. They tried new ones every week, and they never ran out of options. She loved good food. She loved to shop, loved bargain and second-hand stores. Finding record albums sung by the old crooners made her so happy. She put them on her turntable, and while her toe tapped, she sung along.

Lois was one of a kind. She loved living. She fought long and hard to live as long as she did. She has gone through unbelievable health challenges and never wanted to give up. Her courage and bravery were beyond words. She will be sorely missed, always Loved and remembered by all who knew her.

Friends will be received at the John F. Slater Funeral Home, Inc., 412-881-4100, 4201 Brownsville Road, Brentwood 15227 on Monday, October 23, 2023 from 4-8 p.m. Funeral prayer on Tuesday morning at 9:45. Mass of Christian Burial in Blessed Trinity Parish, St. Sylvester Church at 10:30 a.m.

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  • October 22, 2023

    Gina Kraus

    To Deb and Ray, My dearest childhood friends. God Bless you for taking such good care of your Mom. Her spirit will now be young and illness free. Look for signs from her, she will be watching over you now. Love, Gina M. Kraus & Family

  • October 22, 2023

    Carmen E Lachapelle

    Love and Prayers to all. We are thinking of you. Rest in Peace Aunt Lois. Love Carmen & Keith Lachapelle.

  • October 20, 2023

    Carol Donalies

    This photo of Lois brings back lovely memories of my cousin...happy family times growing up in Pittsburgh: one special event (and honor) was when she asked me to be a Jr bridesmaid in her wedding; I was shy, but cousin Lois made me feel comfortable and at ease! Still treasure the beautiful wedding photo! Lois was a strong, independent woman! I admired her, and she was a fun, dear mentor to two teens...my Sister and to me! Our Family grieves the loss of Lois; please accept our sincere condolences! Sending hugs, prayers, comfort, and peace to All of her Family! Carol Kszesinski Donalies and spouse Charles Donalies 8419 Aynsley Court Frederick, MD 21702-3408

  • October 19, 2023

    Joe and Linda Frey

    My memories of my dear cousin, Lois, are all filled with happiness. She was a bright star on earth which made time spent in her full of joy. She had a great sense of humor and a heart of love for humanity. We beings on earth who knew you, Darling Lois, have benefited from your presence. We send love through the heavens to you; and send love, prayers, and deep sympathy to each one of your lovely family members. God Bless you all. Cousin Linda Kszesinski Frey and spouse, Joe Frey

  • October 19, 2023

    Debirah Puatt Bell

    God bless Lois and her family, I know her battel was long and hard but I know now she is a peace and out of pain. May she rest in peace Hugs

  • October 18, 2023

    Deborah Lorson

    Mom always made me laugh every day. Even when her health was failing and she struggled to do anything, she would somehow manage to have me rolling in the floor because of something silly she did or said. My memories with my Mother will always live within me. There isn't enough space in the world that would fit all the memories that could write down about my precious Mother Lois Ann. I love you Mom. I'll miss you until the day you and Dad come to take me home!